Posted on September 12, 2014
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What I have wanted to discuss is the idea of feeling abandoned by God. I have certainly felt this way. For many people of faith, when something goes wrong in their lives, the first response is, “Why? Why did God let this happen?… Continue Reading “Clicker Training and Formula Faith”
Category: Christianity, dog training, encouragement, Evangelical church, Faith, God, Jesus, loveTags: Christianity, Faith, feeling abandoned by God, formula faith, God, Jesus, judgment in the church, performance-based Christianity, personal God, relational Christianity
Posted on December 29, 2013
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I had a really weird social interaction yesterday. I didn’t think I was going to write about it, but here I am, sitting in my bed in my pajamas under the down comforter, exhausted from the day, and my mind feels restless and preoccupied.… Continue Reading “Being Your Authentic Self”
Category: Christianity, encouragement, Faith, God, Healing, Jesus, Moving Forward, Recovery, therapy, TruthTags: authentic self, Christianity, false self, God, healing process, performance-based Christianity, persona
Posted on November 4, 2013
by MJ
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It is not my intent to offend people by writing my observations. I’m not trying to be provocative. I am, however, going to point out a dynamic that has been swirling about church culture for as long as I’ve been privy to it. It’s… Continue Reading “The Borderline Church”
Category: Borderline Personality Disorder, Christianity, Evangelical church, Faith, God, Personality Disorders, TruthTags: Borderline church, Borderline Personality Disorder, Faith, God, performance-based Christianity, spiritual abuse
Posted on October 30, 2013
by MJ
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I have got to get this off my chest. At this point, I don’t care if every person who reads this blog never reads it again. There comes a point when one can’t be silent anymore. I came across an article today while doing… Continue Reading “The Cult of The Virgin”
Category: Christianity, Evangelical church, God, Jesus, Judaism, love, sexTags: American Christian culture and sexuality, Christianity, emotional fornication, emotional purity, evangelicalism, God, Jesus, performance-based Christianity, sex, the cult of the virgin
Posted on September 30, 2013
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An aptly named post, I think, as it’s beginning to feel like a soap opera over here. I just need a guy named Dirk to move in next door, and my neighbors across the street to start throwing down outside. But, hey, we did… Continue Reading “The God Card”
Category: abuse in families, Borderline Personality Disorder, Christianity, Evangelical church, forgiveness, God, Healing, Jesus, MothersTags: accountability in relationships, adult children of borderline parents, Borderline Personality Disorder, boundaries, forgiveness vs. reconciliation, manipulation in relationships, performance-based Christianity, relational Christianity, spiritual abuse, the God card