Category: men with borderline personality disorder

Borderline Personality Disorder and Mirroring

Posted on August 3, 2016 by MJ

I wrote this post, The Male Borderline Waif, a year ago, and it gets a lot of daily traffic. For as much research that’s been accomplished over the decades around borderline personality disorder (BPD), there are still few answers to be had particularly for… Continue Reading “Borderline Personality Disorder and Mirroring”

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Entitlement and Domestic Abuse

Posted on August 2, 2016 by MJ

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I am going to record this for a very specific reason. Sometimes people give something away in the moment, and that’s the moment that things crystalize. That’s the insight that you needed to confirm your hypothesis. That’s when you know that you were right.… Continue Reading “Entitlement and Domestic Abuse”

Category: abuse in families, divorce, domestic abuse, domestic violence, men with borderline personality disorderTags: abuse, divorce, domestic abuse, entitlement, life after divorce, Lundy Bancroft, Should I Stay or Should I Go

The Male Borderline Waif

Posted on August 14, 2015 by MJ

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I’ve written a lot on borderline personality disorder (BPD) on this blog largely because my mother has the disorder. It is not something I wish to vilify, and I don’t want to verbally mistreat people who have been diagnosed with it either. Of all… Continue Reading “The Male Borderline Waif”

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