Tag: Christianity
Posted on July 27, 2013
by MJ
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After my last post, I wanted to pause and discuss the idea of a safe person and what that means using Drs. Cloud and Townsend’s book Safe People. On their website, Cloud and Townsend ask the question: What are safe people? This is a… Continue Reading “Safe People”
Category: Borderline Personality Disorder, Christianity, emotional abuse, Healing, Jesus, Recovery, relationships, therapyTags: adult children of borderline parents, Borderline Personality Disorder, Christianity, Drs. Cloud and Townsend, healing from past abuse, Jesus as template for safe person, safe people, safe relationships
Posted on May 21, 2013
by MJ
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I had a discussion last night with a friend wherein she recounted a discussion she had with someone in her church. Her conversation was almost identical to myriad conversations I’ve had with well-meaning Christians throughout the years of my journey. One such conversation went… Continue Reading “What Does Love Look Like?”
Category: Christianity, Evangelical church, Faith, forgiveness, God, Healing, Jesus, love, Sexual Abuse, TruthTags: abuse, Christianity, cutting off a parent, denial vs. truth, evangelialism, Faith, forgiveness, God, Jesus, love, re-victimizing victims, sexual abuse
Posted on December 18, 2012
by MJ
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I think I’ve blogged myself into a corner. Do you ever feel like you have to censor yourself, or that you can’t present a part of yourself as you truly are? That’s how I’m feeling, and I’m not quite sure how to go about… Continue Reading “Playing Church”
Category: Christianity, Evangelical church, Faith, God, JesusTags: Christianity, evangelicalism, God, Jesus, judgment in the church, redemption, Ted Haggard, the church experience
Posted on November 24, 2012
by MJ
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.A friend of mine sent this video to me yesterday instructing me to “watch it and learn”. It was in response to a story my 12 year-old daughter decided to trot out during the middle of Thanksgiving dinner when three guests were seated at… Continue Reading “Shoot Christians Say”
Posted on July 15, 2011
by MJ
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It’s been one helluva week so I’m just going to “let go” for a moment. I figure I can do that since it’s my blog after all. I wish my mother would disappear over the event horizon of a black hole, hence, permanent deletion… Continue Reading “Borderlines, Sociopaths, PTSD, and Peace”
Category: Borderline Personality Disorder, Christianity, Complex PTSD, Denial, Fathers, Mothers, PTSD, UncategorizedTags: Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, boundaries, Christianity, Complex PTSD, denial, mothers, neural networks, peace, PTSD, sociopathy, therapy
Posted on September 20, 2010
by MJ
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We work so hard in our recovery in order to establish boundaries of safety, predictability, and truth, and then someone comes along to challenge us and our healing process. Are we okay? Are we sure that we did “that” work? What do we do now?
Category: Christianity, Denial, Fathers, Healing, human trafficking, Truth, UncategorizedTags: Christianity, community, denial, God, human trafficking, Recovery, sexual abuse, shame, trauma, truth
Posted on August 21, 2010
by MJ
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How you see yourself is not necessarily based on the truth but rather through a series of filters activated by life experiences. What might we really look like and who might we really be without the filters?
Category: Christianity, Faith, Healing, Moving Forward, Redemption, UncategorizedTags: Christianity, Faith, God, healing process, Jesus, Lazarus, nature, Recovery, restoration, sexual abuse, shame, truth
Posted on July 12, 2010
by MJ
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I was reading an article today taken from a magazine entitled Critique: A Ransom Fellowship Publication, and I want to share part of the article with you. “Today the notion of God’s judgment tends to prompt discomfort rather than assurance, a reason to disbelieve… Continue Reading “A Rest Stop”