Category: advocacy
Posted on June 13, 2018
by MJ
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I feel like I’m writing installments for a weird soap opera–“Tune in today for the continuation of the saga. Will there be an investigation? Will the administration give up their lazy ways and comply with Title IX? Will there still be a hearing? What… Continue Reading “What’s Behind Victim-Blaming?”
Category: advocacy, blame, harassment, human trafficking, self-advocacy, Women's IssuesTags: discrimination, gender-based discrimination, Office of Civil Rights, sexual harassment, social justice, victim blaming
Posted on June 5, 2018
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Amidst the #Metoo movement and Harvey Weinstein perp walk, one might begin to believe that dealing with the nuts and bolts of reporting sexual harassment would suddenly get easier. It really hasn’t, but it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t. You totally should. Realistically, it… Continue Reading “Why Reporting Harassment Matters”
Category: advocacy, harassment, self-advocacy, Women's IssuesTags: harassment, HRO and harassment, OCR complaints, reporting sexual harassment, sexual harassment, Sexual Harassment 101, sexual harassment and documentation, sexual harassment and intimidation
Posted on January 7, 2018
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Happy New Year, y’all! So far, 2018 has been eventful. Two weird things have happened. I shall begin with grad school. I just started my second year at a Traditional Chinese medical school. Only three more to go! Anyway, I have zero complaints about… Continue Reading “The New Year Begins”
Posted on March 14, 2015
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A good friend sent me a blog post by an evangelical pastor, John Bevere, a few days ago in order to get my opinion. What did I think about the content of his post: “Growing Through Unfair Treatment”? I vehemently disagree with him. In… Continue Reading “Fighting Unfair Treatment”
Category: advocacy, Christianity, encouragement, Evangelical church, God, JesusTags: empowerment, fighting oppression, Gnostic teaching in Christianity, John Bevere, kavanah, self-advocacy, teshuvah, true intimacy with God, victimization in God's name
Posted on December 31, 2014
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There must be a strange connection between my need for assertiveness practice and ordering drinks. It’s always the drinks! I just wrote a post on assertiveness yesterday and how helpful grumpy baristas can be in our assertiveness practice; and, last night it happened again–the… Continue Reading “An Assertiveness Serendipity”
Posted on December 30, 2014
by MJ
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I have noticed that one of the ongoing battles in my life is learning to be assertive. I observe this in the lives of people who have left abusive family environments. There seems to be an extreme. Either people are highly reactionary claiming that they… Continue Reading “Reframing Assertiveness”
Posted on September 21, 2013
by MJ
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I wanted to say something about speaking the truth. I have often found myself in conversations with people discussing personal circumstances that are gridlocked. Marriages are in turmoil. People feel unheard, invisible, and helpless. I’ve been in that situation. Or, perhaps it’s something familial.… Continue Reading “speak.”
Category: abuse in families, advocacy, Borderline Personality Disorder, Healing, mental health, Mothers, Moving Forward, PTSD, relationships, therapy, traits in victims, TruthTags: adult children of borderline parents, all-powerful perpetrator, borderline mothers, Borderline Personality Disorder, healing process, learning to use your voice, overcoming victimization, personality disordered parents, PTSD, self-advocacy, telling the truth