Tag: grief
Posted on May 10, 2025
by MJ
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This coming Sunday, May 11, 2025, is Mother’s Day in the United States, and I am likely not alone when I say that I have mixed emotions about this day. It is by far one of the busiest days for the restaurant industry in… Continue Reading “Mother’s Day and Me”
Category: abuse in families, Borderline Personality Disorder, co-dependency, forgiveness, Healing, Mothers, personal developmentTags: family, grief, love, mom, mothers-day
Posted on January 11, 2015
by MJ
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What’s it like to read the same story over and over again and know the ending? Children seem to love this. My daughters each had a favorite story that they insisted I read them repeatedly. Each time I read it they were wide-eyed with… Continue Reading “Three Days”
Category: Christianity, encouragement, Faith, God, Healing, Jesus, Moving Forward, RedemptionTags: Christianity, Faith, feeling abandoned, God, grief, healing process, journeying with God, personal God, restoration
Posted on April 15, 2014
by MJ
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A few years ago I was privileged to spend time in the English countryside in the springtime. Honestly, it was like being dropped into a Beatrix Potter story except that she’s from the Lake District, and I was in Devon. If there is a… Continue Reading “Remembering A Life Well-Lived”
Posted on November 21, 2011
by MJ
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When I was 22 years-old, I attended l’Université Paul Valéry in Montpellier, France. Montpellier is a city in southern France, west of Marseilles, quite near the Mediterranean Sea. Paul Valéry is one of the oldest universities in Europe. Montpellier is renowned the world over… Continue Reading “Living with The Tides”
Category: Faith, God, Grief, intimacy, Moving Forward, relationships, UncategorizedTags: Faith, God, grief, intimacy, Montpellier, Moses, relationships
Posted on October 15, 2010
by MJ
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I live in an interesting state. I love where I live even with the arctic winters and the almost tropical summer temperatures. I love our lakes and our seasons, and I even like the quirky regional accents. I do, however, wonder if our civil… Continue Reading “A Riff on Rage”
Posted on July 8, 2010
by MJ
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While the truth is necessary for our forward movement it also hurts. For many of us, our relationships with our mothers need the most truth and are also the source of most our pain in life particularly if there is abuse. Applying truth, boundaries, and learning to stand our ground can be especially helpful as we grieve our losses in close family relationships.
Category: 12 Steps, Borderline Personality Disorder, Denial, Mothers, Recovery, Sexual Abuse, TruthTags: Borderline Personality Disorder, boundaries, divorce, grief, mothers, self-loathing, spiritual abuse, therapy, thriving