Category: mental health

The Box

Well, I decided to practice self-care so I met with a therapist.  I am inwardly groaning as I write this out because therapy almost feels like a career for me.  I should have an honorary PhD in going to therapy.  It has taken a… Continue Reading “The Box”

speak.

I wanted to say something about speaking the truth. I have often found myself in conversations with people discussing personal circumstances that are gridlocked.  Marriages are in turmoil.  People feel unheard, invisible, and helpless.  I’ve been in that situation.  Or, perhaps it’s something familial.… Continue Reading “speak.”

How To Recognize A Mindf*ck

If it weren’t in such bad taste, I would post my mother’s latest letter and use it as an object lesson in “How To Recognize A Mindfuck”.  Excuse my language, but there’s no other way to put it.  Her entire letter was an exercise in gaslighting.  I’m… Continue Reading “How To Recognize A Mindf*ck”

Understanding The Borderline Mother, Part III: The No-Good Child

As promised, here is the other side of the coin regarding “Make-Believe Children”–the no-good child.  Yesterday, I wrote a rather lengthy post describing the all-good child, and I found it to be a rather educational and somewhat emotional post to write.  I think, however,… Continue Reading “Understanding The Borderline Mother, Part III: The No-Good Child”