Category: encouragement
Posted on June 11, 2017
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I learned something new this week. Well, I should say that I relearned something old, and it resonated as if it were new. It’s worth sharing. There is a phenomenon that almost everyone seems to experience, at some point, after surviving something bad that… Continue Reading “Between Blame and Uncertainty”
Category: anxiety, blame, domestic abuse, encouragement, Faith, Healing, Moving Forward, Recovery, therapyTags: blame, Living with uncertainty, narrative, Recovery, self-blame, stigma and trauma, therapy, victim blaming
Posted on June 7, 2017
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I read an article in the New York Times this morning entitled: Want to Be Creative on Purpose? Schedule It Right off the bat I can tell you that it’s a quick and dirty read and probably true. Written by Carl Richards aka Sketch… Continue Reading “Einstein on Changing Your Life”
Category: encouragement, Moving Forward, personal developmentTags: Albert Einstein, Chuck Close, divine image, dreams, inspiration, inspiration is cheap, making life changes, personal development, the power of now
Posted on June 3, 2017
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I wanted to write something germane to your life and process. Something that might speak to you. To anyone. To everyone. Perhaps this might. I go to therapy every Tuesday. I like to think that I’m ‘getting it done’ whatever ‘it’ is, but, as… Continue Reading “The Essence of Healing”
Category: anxiety, Complex PTSD, domestic violence, encouragement, Healing, human trafficking, mental health, personal development, PTSD, therapy, traumaTags: anxiety, Complex PTSD, fear of annihilation, healing after divorce, healing process, Recovery, therapeutic process
Posted on April 9, 2017
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I have been writing about EMDR and the process of therapy for a few reasons. I often tell people that therapy is good. Go to therapy! But then I’m met with this common response: “Why?” That’s legit. Why indeed. Providing documentation of the actual… Continue Reading “Profound Trauma and EMDR”
Category: abuse in families, encouragement, Healing, mental health, personal development, PTSD, therapy, traumaTags: adaptively processed memories, cognitive distortions, EMDR, healing process, maladaptively processed memories, mindfulness, torture, traumatic memories
Posted on March 29, 2017
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I saw this in a store today.
Posted on March 26, 2017
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Here’s a story. I’m sharing it because it might elucidate something for you. I’ll open with a question. Have you ever felt something like a fear of discovery? Like if people found out who you really were, then they would abandon you because, deep… Continue Reading “Imposter Syndrome in Trauma Survivors”
Category: encouragement, Healing, mental health, personal development, PTSD, traits in victims, traumaTags: blame, healing process, Imposter Syndrome, narrative approach, narrative exposure therapy, ontological significance, trauma, witnessing the story
Posted on March 19, 2017
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I have discussed core beliefs on this blog (Core Beliefs and Double Distortions, Gridlock and Core Beliefs, Core Beliefs) . After my “career” in therapy, I thought I’d covered all the ground until I landed on core beliefs. I learned that after putting in… Continue Reading “Deep Programming and Core Beliefs”
Category: abuse in families, domestic violence, emotional abuse, encouragement, Healing, mental health, personal development, PTSD, Redemption, therapy, traumaTags: core beliefs, deep programming, family culture, Recovery, therapeutic process, trauma
Posted on March 16, 2017
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I want to come at the idea of healing and recovery from a different direction. Please bear with me as I lay a foundation. I am in a traditional Chinese medical school program. Suffice it to say, this is not anything like the Western… Continue Reading “Deficiency and Excess Patterns”
Posted on March 12, 2017
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“Sometimes where you are is not where you belong. It’s just what you’re used to.”
Posted on February 12, 2017
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“If I quit now, then I will soon be back to where I started. And when I started I was desperately hoping to be where I am now.” Unknown