Category: Truth
Posted on January 26, 2014
by MJ
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I have never contacted an author for any reason. Never because I’ve liked their material. Never to complain. Never because I was fan-girling over their latest novel or having a fit over how they wrote a character out of a storyline. I am… Continue Reading “Breaking The Mold”
Category: abuse in families, Borderline Personality Disorder, Christianity, emotional abuse, Faith, Healing, mental health, Mothers, Recovery, Sexual Abuse, TruthTags: abuse, adult children of borderline parents, Borderline Personality Disorder, Christianity, God, persona vs. identity, self-actualization, self-loathing, therapy, truth
Posted on December 29, 2013
by MJ
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I had a really weird social interaction yesterday. I didn’t think I was going to write about it, but here I am, sitting in my bed in my pajamas under the down comforter, exhausted from the day, and my mind feels restless and preoccupied.… Continue Reading “Being Your Authentic Self”
Category: Christianity, encouragement, Faith, God, Healing, Jesus, Moving Forward, Recovery, therapy, TruthTags: authentic self, Christianity, false self, God, healing process, performance-based Christianity, persona
Posted on November 12, 2013
by MJ
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I was at my therapist yesterday for another session. We did not do EMDR. Instead we spoke more about the protective emotions. Just like on Sesame Street, the word of the day was DISGUST. What does disgust look like in the world to me?… Continue Reading “Logical Fallacies”
Category: abuse in families, Borderline Personality Disorder, Christianity, encouragement, Evangelical church, God, Healing, mental health, therapy, TruthTags: adult children of borderline parents, Borderline Personality Disorder, Christianity, denial, God, importance of therapy, logical fallacies, sexual abuse, sexuality, truth
Posted on November 4, 2013
by MJ
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It is not my intent to offend people by writing my observations. I’m not trying to be provocative. I am, however, going to point out a dynamic that has been swirling about church culture for as long as I’ve been privy to it. It’s… Continue Reading “The Borderline Church”
Category: Borderline Personality Disorder, Christianity, Evangelical church, Faith, God, Personality Disorders, TruthTags: Borderline church, Borderline Personality Disorder, Faith, God, performance-based Christianity, spiritual abuse
Posted on September 21, 2013
by MJ
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I wanted to say something about speaking the truth. I have often found myself in conversations with people discussing personal circumstances that are gridlocked. Marriages are in turmoil. People feel unheard, invisible, and helpless. I’ve been in that situation. Or, perhaps it’s something familial.… Continue Reading “speak.”
Category: abuse in families, advocacy, Borderline Personality Disorder, Healing, mental health, Mothers, Moving Forward, PTSD, relationships, therapy, traits in victims, TruthTags: adult children of borderline parents, all-powerful perpetrator, borderline mothers, Borderline Personality Disorder, healing process, learning to use your voice, overcoming victimization, personality disordered parents, PTSD, self-advocacy, telling the truth
Posted on May 21, 2013
by MJ
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I had a discussion last night with a friend wherein she recounted a discussion she had with someone in her church. Her conversation was almost identical to myriad conversations I’ve had with well-meaning Christians throughout the years of my journey. One such conversation went… Continue Reading “What Does Love Look Like?”
Category: Christianity, Evangelical church, Faith, forgiveness, God, Healing, Jesus, love, Sexual Abuse, TruthTags: abuse, Christianity, cutting off a parent, denial vs. truth, evangelialism, Faith, forgiveness, God, Jesus, love, re-victimizing victims, sexual abuse
Posted on October 25, 2011
by MJ
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I’ve reviewed some of my older posts, and I’m surprised. I’ve written more than I realized about my experiences with human trafficking. I feel a mix of embarrassment, shame, and disappointment with myself. Part of me accuses, “Would you at least try to think… Continue Reading “Under the Sycamore Tree”
Category: Christianity, God, Healing, human trafficking, Recovery, Sexual Abuse, Truth, UncategorizedTags: abuse, Christianity, Faith, God, healing, human trafficking, Judaism, truth
Posted on March 7, 2011
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I had an interesting experience today. I’ll be honest. It started out as annoying and became interesting later. To bring you up to speed, I have a very nasty, chest cold. I also had a migraine at 4:30 AM this morning. So, taking my… Continue Reading “Mighty Men and Parking Spaces”
Category: Christianity, Faith, God, Healing, Moving Forward, Sexual Abuse, TruthTags: abuse, Christianity, Faith, forgiveness, God, healing, healing process, Jesus, reconciliation, Recovery, self-loathing, sexual abuse, shame, truth
Posted on February 1, 2011
by MJ
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I’ve been asking myself a question–why do some people recover and learn to thrive in life while others remain stuck? I’m certain that there are many highly trained people who could give me good answers, but I do wonder if the foundation of those… Continue Reading “The Truth about Rose-Colored Glasses”
Category: Denial, Faith, God, Grief, Healing, Moving Forward, Recovery, self-pity, TruthTags: community, denial, Faith, healing, life coaching, Recovery, self-loathing, self-pity, telling the truth, therapy, thriving
Posted on January 13, 2011
by MJ
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I went to my mailbox a few days ago and discovered a post-Christmas package. I love getting letters and packages so I tore open the padded envelope and found that one of my cousins had given me a book. It must be said that… Continue Reading “Hard Sayings and Love Songs”
Category: Christianity, Faith, Grief, Healing, Truth, UncategorizedTags: Christianity, Faith, God, Jesus, nature, restoration, truth