Tag: PTSD
Posted on October 30, 2014
by MJ
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I feel compelled to write this out, but I want to write it carefully. I don’t want to trigger anyone. I don’t often write explicitly about my past sexual abuse largely because I identify less and less with it. I have aggressively and relentlessly… Continue Reading “The Burden of WHY”
Category: abuse in families, anxiety, encouragement, Healing, Moving Forward, Sexual AbuseTags: encouragement, flashbacks, healing process, PTSD, recovering from sexual abuse, sexual abuse, trauma, wanting to know why
Posted on August 7, 2014
by MJ
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I live in Minnesota. I overheard someone say once that we work for our seasons. That’s an oddly funny thing to say, but, if you live here, then you’ll understand the meaning in that sentiment. As a seasonal change approaches, the current weather patterns… Continue Reading “Abandoning the Self”
Category: abuse in families, co-dependency, Complex PTSD, Denial, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, emotional abuse, Healing, marriage, PTSD, Recovery, relationships, therapyTags: abuse, Complex PTSD, distress tolerance, emotional flashbacks, emotional neglect, mindfulness, narrative approach, PTSD, self-abandonment, therapy
Posted on August 3, 2014
by MJ
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Recovery is something I have talked about on this blog. A lot. If we have experienced an iota of abuse or trauma in our lives, then we will have to commit to the process of healing and recovery. That’s life. That’s how we clean… Continue Reading “PTSD and DESNOS”
Category: abuse in families, Complex PTSD, emotional abuse, Healing, mental health, panic attacks, PTSD, Recovery, Sexual Abuse, therapy, traits in victimsTags: abuse, anxiety, co-dependency, Complex PTSD, DESNOS, PTSD, sexual abuse, trauma
Posted on February 27, 2014
by MJ
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In my last post, I talked about learning to make plans for yourself in the context of possessing a sense of a foreshortened future. This can feel almost impossible if one has poor distress tolerance. Distress tolerance is very important when it comes to… Continue Reading “Learning to Deal”
Category: abuse in families, anxiety, encouragement, mental health, Recovery, therapyTags: anxiety, coping strategies, distress tolerance, healing process, PTSD, sense of foreshortened future, trauma
Posted on February 20, 2014
by MJ
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I don’t know to whom I need to attribute this image. It’s one of those images that gets passed around Facebook and Pinterest, and everyone LIKES it. It feels inspirational. It seems like something one might hear at a political rally or in a… Continue Reading “Looking Ahead”
Category: anxiety, Complex PTSD, encouragement, Healing, human trafficking, mental health, PTSDTags: financial problems and anxiety, healing process, human trafficking and PTSD, OCD, PTSD, sense of foreshortened future, trauma
Posted on September 21, 2013
by MJ
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I wanted to say something about speaking the truth. I have often found myself in conversations with people discussing personal circumstances that are gridlocked. Marriages are in turmoil. People feel unheard, invisible, and helpless. I’ve been in that situation. Or, perhaps it’s something familial.… Continue Reading “speak.”
Category: abuse in families, advocacy, Borderline Personality Disorder, Healing, mental health, Mothers, Moving Forward, PTSD, relationships, therapy, traits in victims, TruthTags: adult children of borderline parents, all-powerful perpetrator, borderline mothers, Borderline Personality Disorder, healing process, learning to use your voice, overcoming victimization, personality disordered parents, PTSD, self-advocacy, telling the truth
Posted on July 23, 2013
by MJ
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I continually try to get away from the topic of borderline personality disorder on this blog, but I find that art is imitating life. I can’t get away from it in my life either. Why fight it? I’m going to try to make it… Continue Reading “Understanding The Borderline Mother, Part I”
Category: Borderline Personality Disorder, emotional abuse, Healing, Mothers, PTSD, RecoveryTags: abuse, borderline mother, Borderline Personality Disorder, borderline types, boundaries, Christine Lawson, mothers, PTSD, Recovery, trauma
Posted on July 23, 2012
by MJ
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I’ve discussed myriad topics on this blog ranging from community, body image issues, forgiveness, faith, PTSD, and recovery. I’ve also discussed something called ‘differentiation’ although I haven’t called it that. Essentially, the work I’ve been doing to extract myself from the toxic and abusive… Continue Reading “A Conclusion”
Category: Borderline Personality Disorder, co-dependency, Complex PTSD, Faith, human trafficking, Moving Forward, PTSD, traits in victims, UncategorizedTags: Borderline Personality Disorder, characteristics of co-dependency, co-dependency, differentiation, PTSD, separation and individuation, therapy, traits in victims
Posted on July 15, 2011
by MJ
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It’s been one helluva week so I’m just going to “let go” for a moment. I figure I can do that since it’s my blog after all. I wish my mother would disappear over the event horizon of a black hole, hence, permanent deletion… Continue Reading “Borderlines, Sociopaths, PTSD, and Peace”
Category: Borderline Personality Disorder, Christianity, Complex PTSD, Denial, Fathers, Mothers, PTSD, UncategorizedTags: Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, boundaries, Christianity, Complex PTSD, denial, mothers, neural networks, peace, PTSD, sociopathy, therapy
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